Choon Keat

How can u define friend? Will try to help when he/she is in trouble? Some ppl that can find for help when u r in trouble? then what abt free time? when a friend visit from far way? when someone that not see each other frequent, still consider friend?

I just visit to out station… and try to visit a friend… before i go.. i already contacted her.. but when i reach there.. call out for a meet.. there is so many excuses.. sick la, meeting la… can’t meet in 2 days.. not even a call to me.. after a few time contact.. i still don’t believe that this friend will treat this to me.. so i keep on contact until… at last i went to bus.. and send sms told her abt the disappoinment..

in another case.. i didn’t plan to visit another friend.. coz i don’t know he is staying in that city.. when i realise.. i sms.. he just reply a yes.. and c how to meet.. in the next day also offer help to me..

If really don’t wanna meet me, can just reject in the begining.. said that u r busy, or u will be sick.. why need to lie to me when i contact u??? then just not recieving call n not replying sms at the time i contact u??? should i still consider this as friend??

Haha, after looking at a few
friends’ blog… i think is the time for me to share…

So fast i’m already in the final sem… when i meet with someone else, they
normally will ask.. are u busy this sem? u must be busy with ur psm, right?
haha.. tell u the real thing, final year student is very free… because they
just hv a few credits.. so just need to go for class a few days a week.. abt
psm, it is depends on self arrangement..

A lot of memorable things… that happen in university. I had joined a lot of
activities.. knew a lot of friends.. some friend might close in one moment, but
after the activity done, it goes to "hi, bye" friend… i just meet
up a fren last night.. we had no meet for almost 2 years…

Hmm.. wht had i done i U life? at 1st year.. i’m not a popular ppl.. most of
the ppl doen’t like me.. coz i’m "kolot" and like to show off, don’t
hv communication skills and like to take attention from other ppl all the
time.. at that time.. i don’t really hv fren.. even my coursemates also running
out of me.. haha.. one of my close fren now, at that time also trying to avoid
me.. before i entering U, i had a theory.. young is just the time for u to
doing things wrong.. that’s why.. i keep myself old and become
"kolot".. after sometimes, i change my concept.. Young is just once
in a life time.. it is reversible.. why not give it a try.. so.. i make some
change… besides, i also listen to the ppl that avoiding me.. try to figure
out wht wrong with me.. then i change.. A word that really helps a lot…
Action is better than talk… use action to prove it…

In my 1^st year.. The 1^st activity that I joined is actly “zhong
qiu”. Haha, but I just join for a while.. then I quit liao. Is actly I follow
some frens, 1 of them, is a girl that I admire.. haha, but I had done a stupid
step, I join the different dept.. I not close with my dept members.. and also
don’t feel the warm of the dept.. end up, I just leave… Then, I had join an
activity call “xin chun”. I join as a program officer.. I’m in a sub group call
“twenty four drum”.. basically nothing much to do.. just need to find some
information, and plan how to present it.. unfortunately, the program had been
cancel in the last minute. There is nothing we can do.. and actly, I hvn’t
finish my task..

I think that’s all for my 1st
year.. a bit lazy to write 2^nd year here.. and will be quite long..
so wait for my second year la

Habits is a thing that we always do. We already familiar with it, and we feel comfortable to it. It is very hard to change our habits.

But, if u think it in another way…

Build up your desire habits, make your life be meaningful… will this seems better?

Make your desire life into your habits, then u r always in your desire life.